live a life of full, authentic expression
lean into your own happiness
experience each moment with loving intention
Blake Zealear
Empowerment coach, relationship engineer & sacred sexuality practitioner
Blake Zealear
Empowerment coach, relationship engineer & sacred sexuality practitioner
reclaim your sacred self
Find the freedom, joy, and pleasure in life, love and yourself.
Truly connect to your own sacredness. Rise up feeling empowered, passionate, and deeply connected to who you truly are and what you truly want.
Pleasure and joy are found when self-love and healing happen
reclaim a zeal for life
reclaim pleasure with intimacy
Reclaim passion with intention
Reclaim power with integration
embrace love as a driving force for change
- Reveal your deepest intuitive desires and authentic truth
- Heal past wounds and watch your triggers disappear
- Remember who you were before life "happened to you"
my mission is simple
to support you in reclaiming your truth and discovering what turns you on without fear, shame, or guilt
in short, to reveal your purpose, your passion, and your pleasure
Hey! I'm blake
The first thing you need to know about me is that I am passionately turned on about life, grateful for existence and believe that love is our path to empowerment and purpose.
Just like you, I have had to navigate many major life transitions. I have reinvented myself multiple times from buttoned-up corporate jobs to following my dreams, addiction to thriving, wounds to superpowers.
Every single step of the way, I pulled back another layer and realized more fully exactly how my wounds and conditioning were driving me, and I decided to take the wheel back.
As a Certified Sex Educator, Empowerment Coach, and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) practitioner: I hear you and see you, just as you are – holding space for the magic within you to be fully realized.
The greatest gift we can give another is to help them feel understood and witnessed – I’ll do that for you. Always.
Want more of my resumé?
- ISTA Practitioner Training Graduate, and Apprentice Facilitator
- Certified Sex Educator
- Empowerment Coach
- Landmark Education Graduate
- NLP Practitioner
- Sacred Sexuality Practitioner
- Book Author (coming soon - stay tuned!)
- Retreat & Workshop Facilitator
- Speaker
- I’m a dork for aliens and regularly nod off to space vids on YouTube
- My food obsession has to be salsa and tortilla chips (salty, crunchy triangles of pure goodness!)
- My embodiment practices also include pedicures, singing and dancing, wearing skirts, backpacking, and shamanic tattooing
- I believe in open loving relationships where everyone is seen, heard and valued to their fullest
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empowerment coaching
embrace the power of love to create the life of your dreams
Relationship. intimacy. sexuality.
Our relationship to anything or anyone can be engineered.
Intimacy is the key – intimacy with self, intimacy with others.
The truth is, that sexual desire is your life force energy. When we feel it, want it, crave it, have it… we increase our overall power and fulfillment with life.
To manifest what we desire, we must engage in making love to life and channelling our sexual energy into our creativity and expression.
When sexual desire is not flowing, for any reason, we feel drained, unhinged, frustrated, lonely or ashamed.
After working with hundreds of individuals, couples and moresomes as a Coach and Guide, it is never lost on me that every single one of us has shame, fear, guilt, and frustration blocking our pleasure and happiness.
Whether you love your sex life or loathe it – there is massive potential for healing available throughout our intimate lives – sexuality, relationship, intimacy… pleasure.
It’s time to get to the root of your desire, unlock your Eros, and truly fall in love with life (again, and again, and again).
Empowerment coaching is for those who
- Want to manifest or reclaim their life in its fullest expression
- Have encountered blocks and can’t seem to move beyond them
- Feel excluded from the experience of a fulfilling or gratifying sex or love life
- Want to deepen their intimate bonds and relationships with everyone in their lives
- Need to release old traumas and start fresh
- Are curious about pleasure as a practice and way of experiencing the world
Past clients have experienced
- New levels of communication and depths of connection in their relationships
- Enhanced chemistry and polarity in their sex lives
- Peaceful relationship transitions such as uncoupling or opening of an existing relationships
- Sense of empowerment in pursuing relationships
- Conquering rejection and fear to attract the love you desire
- Expanded mindset and new beliefs around sexuality, relationships, intimacy and themselves
- Alignment with core beliefs and values and boundaries that they enjoy
- Stepping into their most empowered and integrated masculine/feminine form
If you’re ready to truly heal…
you’re ready to find freedom, love and sovereignty.
re/MEN/ber Brotherhood Journey
immersive 5-day men-only retreat AND a 3-month integration journey (so that you put into practice what you learn, brother!)
Calling all MEN seeking community, empowerment and transformation
re/MEN/ber Brotherhood is a series of highly impactful men-only group trainings focused on awakening the empowered conscious Masculine inside you.
If you’ve struggled with connection, relationships and bonding, re/MEN/ber Brotherhood is just for you.
Together we’ll explore the depths of what it means to be a man in today’s society, truly examine our relationships with a focus on emotional intelligence, discover what we truly need and how we create it.
Turn your pain into power, brother!
We’ll integrate core wounds, chart a path for freedom, and develop deep brotherhood bonds. It’s time to inspire a magnificent future and rise together!
Open love
sacred spaces. sacred love. Couples. threesome. poly moresomes.
However you choose to embrace love - we’re here for it.
Explore the boundaries and conditions you’ve been taught about love and relationships while recognizing that they may not be right for you or your partner(s).
Deep dive into your very own biological codes and create an Open Love of your own.
Reclaim your sacredness, your sexuality, your desires.
Cultivate connection while exploring self-love, intimate relationships and freedom.
This program is essential for anyone...
- On the cusp of starting or opening a relationship dynamic
- Those curious (but non-commital… yet!) about open relationships
- Open and interested in exploring their societal conditioning and biological callings
- Who wants to heal from relationship wounds of the past
- Focused on de-programming their attachment styles
Extraordinary lovers experience
Shake off the ordinary & discover
the extraordinary in your relationship
Freedom, passion and pleasure are your birthrite and guideposts to living an extraordinary love life.
But… sometimes they wane, fade or even disappear (for a time!).
What if I told you, they didn’t have to?
What if I told you, that extraordinary lovers invest in their relationship by continuing to go deep long after the newness of love fades?
Would you invest in extraordinary love?
By becoming an Extraordinary Lover?
Extraordinary lovers is perfect for the couple who...
- Refuse to allow the spark to fade in their relationship and want to keep it burning hot!
- Know that chemistry is a forever-burn that can be created, cared for and cultivated for life
- Are inspired to live love to it’s absolute max - passionate, pleasure-filled freedom with purpose!
If your relationship vision hasn’t matched its reality (and you want it back or to make it even stronger)…
Extraordinary Lovers is the countdown to a passionate
re-ignition
Sacred Touch
deeply integrative, holistic, gender-inclusive
path to sexual healing and embodiment
Our bodies truly keep the score of every experience we’ve ever had (even across multiple timelines and generations).
If you've ever...
- Experienced trauma or triggers
- Felt shame, guilt, or fear around sex, sexuality, or your body
- Struggled with grief, anger, or apathy
- Felt disconnected with your body, pleasure, or your true desires
- Struggled with intimacy, connection, passion or purpose
Sacred Touch may be for you.
Our intention is to help you release what has held you back in your life by releasing the stored cellular memories inside each of us.
Using touch and coaching, we intimately release emotions and stored trauma from the body. This is a holistic sex-positive shamanic experience.
All facilitators of Sacred Touch are ISTA Practitioner Training Graduates.
If you're looking to
- Fully embody your personal power, sexuality, and desires
- Heal old wounds buried unconsciously inside yourself
- Learn to support others through a cathartic emotional healing
- Cultivate loving presence in your relationships
We welcome you to a safe space to explore, create and redefine sacred sexuality for yourself.
