blake zealear

Blake’s gift seems to be returning you to yourself. After just one session and having spent two weeks doing the work he gave me I find myself in deeper alignment with not just my body but my heart my desire and my purpose. I don’t think I realized just how disempowered I had become and even though I have done years of therapy and explored many other avenues of self development I was still outsourcing a lot of what I most needed. And it turns out where I really needed it from was myself. I may have known that before but I didn’t feel it before. And after spending a week of giving it to myself I have never felt more full! Full in a way that no one else but me could make me feel. There is a certain kind of allowance that you feel in his presence and that allowance lasts. He’s a fucking permission slip to deeply boundlessly unabashedly loving the shit out of yourself 🙌🏼🙏🏼🌸

Blake and I connected at a time in my life when I knew that I needed help, but I felt stuck, hopeless, and had given up on trying to be happy. I was exhausted and burnt out at work, recovering from a miscarriage, fighting with my husband about moving our family out of state, wanting/trying to get pregnant again, strongly disliking my body and myself, and was depressed, anxious, overwhelmed and unhappy. Despite therapy (which was helpful), I did not know what action to take or how to take action to change my life in any positive way.

Blake Zealear, Relationship Engineer. His professional title perfectly describes the life-changing work he does. His clear and compassionate guidance brought my wife and I closer than ever before and strengthened the integrity of my family. But the greatest gift are the tools he instilled in me to begin uncovering the shadows within and healing my wounds with love and lasting effectiveness. Blake's approach is real world and practical and delivered with a generous dose of empathy and love. I can't think of anyone else I would have wanted as my guide in this exhilarating, scary, ultimately rewarding journey that my wife and I took into the shadows of ourselves. I 100% recommend his profound wisdom to anyone who has a desire to go deeper, experience more love and give his or her greatest gift to the world.

You’ve been with me for over two years now. In the early phases of my recovery, you conducted my first interview for the long program and I really felt we communicated well. Then we were able to spend the weekend together in Oakland at the program and I felt I could be open with you with no fear of judgement. I hadn’t found this in too many men up to that point. When I needed more personal coaching, you were the resource I needed. You’ve given me gifts, techniques and methods of growth and clearing old things that no longer serve me. Together we’ve worked on my anger issues, feelings of intimacy, self love, and growth in my masculine. Also, cherishing my inner child and embracing him. The work continues, as they say, the work is never done. I feel blessed to be on this path with you.

I knew before we finished our first intro call that Blake was my coach, THE coach for this moment in my life, and I could not have made a better decision. Up until now, all of my therapists, coaches, and mentors have been (phenomenal) women. There is a very different dynamic working with Blake that's been truly transformational, and I only started working with him two months ago. I have a history of forming toxic relationships with men, ranging from frustrating and disappointing to truly harmful (both emotionally and physically.) I trust Blake in a way that I haven't trusted a man before. He shows up with a grounded and safe masculine presence that I've simply never experienced and it's showing me what's possible.

I've been putting off writing this review because I'm struggling to capture in words how special sacred touch work with Blake is. He holds absolutely impeccable space. I've felt completely safe with him from the moment I started working with him. I'm able to reach deeper levels of healing every session. This is work that I will keep coming back for time and time again. No amount of talking can access the deepest layers of emotions and trauma stored in the body. That's why hands-on work has been absolutely essential for my healing and transformation. As our work progresses, I take and more ownership of the sessions, which is also deeply healing for me. I feel safer in my own skin now. I feel grounded. I feel more open to connection and intimacy in all of it's forms. AND I know there's still so much farther to go. Blake shows up with an infinite amount of care and empathy. Healing work is so clearly his calling: he was born to do it. Im grateful to have found him and the world needs this work.

Before working with Blake, I was in a massive state of resistance. Resistant to feeling deeper into my fears and desires around family, career, self expression...Blake held a loving, and confronting as hell at times, yet firm container for me to melt deeply into what I was running from. From our work together I met myself in the darkness and fell deeply in love with who I met there. All of me. I feel much more at ease and grounded in my heart and body. It is such a profound gift.